Premier Legal Representation Focused On You

Debunking common divorce myths

On Behalf of | Apr 20, 2021 | Divorce |

Unfortunately, many Texas couples decide to call it quits every single year. With so many people going through a divorce, it’s no surprise that a lot of inaccurate information can be passed along from person to person. If you’re headed towards divorce, you should really take the time to understand what’s actually true regarding the divorce process and what’s not.

Mother’s always get custody

If you’re a father getting ready to go through a divorce, you may be worried because you’ve been told the myth that the mother most likely gets custody of the children. The reality is that both parents are equally likely to get custody of the children. The judge will rule in favor of what’s in the best interest of your children. As long as you can provide them with a stable home, you’ll be eligible for custody.

Women get alimony

While this divorce myth did hold some truth decades ago, it no longer does today. Both men and women are ordered to pay their former spouses alimony. The decision of whether or not someone will get alimony simply comes down to looking at the income of you and your spouse. Whatever spouse would significantly suffer from not having a mutual income will likely be granted alimony regardless of their gender.

Separate accounts mean separate finances

Many people are surprised to find out that even if they kept a separate bank account from their spouse throughout their marriage that it’s not considered theirs. Depending on the state that you live in, your state will follow a community property or equitable distribution law when it comes to your division of assets. This basically means that the judge will take into account all of the assets that you and your former spouse have and divide them up in an equal fashion.

If you’re getting ready to undo your vows, you’ll likely have a lot of questions swimming around in your mind. The above are some of the most common misconceptions that people have about going through the divorce process. By being able to decipher between myths and truths regarding divorce, you can better prepare yourself for the entire process.